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Here is the thing about co-dependency, which most people’s relationships are built on: it is often the result of not having your true emotional needs met, or even knowing what your true emotional needs are. When you are in a healthy, fulfilling, and truly loving and passionate (divinely activating) relationship that co-dependency shifts into a healthy and dynamic reliance on a partner. The clearest example of co-dependency is people who are stuck together but not in love. We often act as if being dissatisfied or unfulfilled is a mental or emotional imbalance. But the truth is, you're just not with the right person. Or you are involved with people for the wrong reasons. The right person is not necessarily the “easiest” person to be with, but they are the most fulfilling. In co-dependent relationships, which include friendships and family, there is a guarantee of ease. Of the consistency of stagnation and patterns. Of buried truths. Of routine. This is the bond. And this means the people in the relationship are not required to change, be uncomfortable, or evolve. They are attached to the matrix program that ties and bonds them. That ties and bonds everyone and everything. This is the emotional, spiritual, mental, and financial arrangement and guarantee behind co-dependent (matrix) relationships. This is their power and broad appeal. This is their draw. This is their structure. This is why they last. Most importantly, the co-dependent relationship is the one in which you ignore, squander, and betray the dream and needs of your Soul.